gwensmom ([info]gwensmom) wrote,
@ 2008-04-10 10:22:00
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I am a SUPERHERO!


Call me Wonder Woman. The school system tried to reduce the amount of therapy for Gwen next year. I challenged it and was called into a meeting with three big wigs from the school system this morning.

The plan, which I did not approve, was to have Gwen's physical and occupational therapists take a less active role and train the classroom aides to work with her. With some notable exceptions, the caliber of classroom aides is not at all impressive and they come and go as if through a revolving door.

So I went to this meeting and was not scared and held out for what Gwen needs and got it. (I think that it was easier and less expensive for them to keep Gwen's therapy hours constant than to deal with my continued appeals up the chain of command.) Also, the principal backed me up especially about how untrained and unreliable some of the classroom aides can be.

It is all good now and I am glad to have met the people from the system. Everyone was reasonable and now they know that I am also reasonable but will stand up for what Gwen needs. I thanked them all and told them how pleased we have been with Gwen's school and how well she has done there. Hopefully they left feeling good about it too.


"NO! You must not reduce Gwen's therapy services! Now get me a New Orleans Spicy Combo meal with a biscuit to go."



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Wooo HOOOO!!!
[info]gothamgal
2008-04-10 03:50 pm UTC (link)
You've always been a superhero in my (comic) book!

Congrats on this victory.

:-)

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[info]cyph0r
2008-04-10 05:33 pm UTC (link)
kudos! If only every parent was such a great advocate for their special needs child like you are!

p/s - I hope you know not all classroom aids are unreliable because I am one :P , however, many of them are not trained and we are paid squat.

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[info]gwensmom
2008-04-10 06:12 pm UTC (link)
Awww, I do know that there are good classroom aides and you are obviously one of those notable exceptions I mentioned. The ones Gwen had in her first years at that school were also excellent. Since then it's just been so-so. And you are totally right about the lack of training and low pay. I would be out of there too as soon as I found or qualified for something better.

My problem was that they wanted licensed therapists to train the aides to do the therapy. To me it is unsafe for the child and unfair to the aides. I bet the school's liability attorneys would agree if they knew!

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[info]cyph0r
2008-04-10 06:58 pm UTC (link)
yea I can't believe they thought it was ok. Also if Gwen has so many hours of therapy on her IEP the school is legally bound to it unless you agree to a change it on the IEP.

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(Anonymous)
2008-04-11 01:01 am UTC (link)
That's the thing- they wrote the reduced hours on the IEP without my consent! When I signed I checked the boxes that said "I do not agree" and "I do not give my permission for this plan to be implemented."

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[info]christine0701
2008-04-10 06:51 pm UTC (link)
Good for you!!! I'm glad you stuck up for Gwen, and won :)

And, I love the pictures!

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[info]jennyfactory
2008-04-11 12:58 am UTC (link)
You rock. (I wish I could be more eloquent than that, but I am fried after a long day and just can't do it. I think "you rock" gets my point across anyway, though.)

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[info]janhatesmarcia
2008-04-11 02:41 am UTC (link)
You go, (Super)girl!

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[info]zhenechka_trou
2008-04-11 06:05 pm UTC (link)
Super Sarah! w00t!

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[info]liveparadox
2008-04-11 06:39 pm UTC (link)
You totally rock. Congratulations on carrying your point! :)

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[info]curlita
2008-04-12 03:43 am UTC (link)
Good for you! You're a great mom and advocate!

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where did you find that photo of my ex?
(Anonymous)
2008-04-14 12:35 pm UTC (link)
LOL! I LOVE the "big wig"...I dated her for a while, during a very dark period of my life...
I know what it takes to stand up for your kid and the time and energy it required was only possible because you have stepped back from work and are taking good care of yourself. This is a great reminder for care-givers! Keep working to care for yourself and maintain the healthy balance because you just never know when another event is going to pop up that requires you to be on your toes.
(and find some time to start penciling down that book!)

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