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gwensmom
Date: 2009-09-25 14:17
Subject: An update about Gwen
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We have learned that Gwen tested positive for Influenza A. The swine flu is a strain of Influenza A and is probably what she had. When Gwen was a baby she tested positive for allergy to eggs. For this reason, I never had her immunized for the flu because those vaccines are grown in eggs. This year I decided to have her allergy tested again to find out if an immunization would be safe. Her appointment fell on the day after she died.

Her obituary appeared in the paper today
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/commercialappeal/obituary.aspx?n=mary-gwendolyn-terry&pid=133429381

We thank you for your expressions of love and concern for Gwen and for us.

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gwensmom
Date: 2009-09-23 20:52
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Our precious daughter Gwen passed away peacefully and sweetly in our arms early Wednesday morning. Last week she contracted a flu (not swine) that developed into pneumonia that her body could not fight.

Please visit my current blog at http://gwenshouse.wordpress.com and leave any comments there.

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gwensmom
Date: 2009-08-31 12:25
Subject: Helquin
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It grieves me to have to tell you that [info]helquinartifex passed away on July 3 after valiant fight against liver cancer. He was 46.

Like many of you, I met Helquin on Nervousness.org and enjoyed his zest for life and art. I always signed up for his zine projects because his topics were so clever and hilarious. It is hard to believe that such a vibrant and witty personality is gone.

If you knew Helquin, please add a note of condolence and perhaps an anecdote about him below. I will send his family a link to this post. If you would rather mail them something, ask me for the address.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-09-16 09:54
Subject: Packing Up and Moving On
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In order to escape the new smarmy t-shirt ads (and ads for who knows what in the future), I am moving gwenshouse to Wordpress. I have just posted this new project over there:



Come visit me at my new address and see the whole thing:

http://gwenshouse.wordpress.com/




All my old posts are there now and this LJ account will remain open so I can continue to check in with all my friends. I hope to see you on Wordpress!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-09-02 08:56
Subject: What I did with the red log cabin square
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The last mini swap quilt for the year is finished. Some people think I will not have the power to resist signing up for more swaps but they are wrong. There are holiday gifts to be made! Must. not. join. any. more. swaps. this. year.

The recipient of this quilt did not specify any favorite colors or any preferred patterns or fabrics. Hmmmm what to do? Well, she lives in Norway so I made her a scrappy Norwegian flag. This one came together pretty well except for the binding. I had to rip and reapply one binding piece three times before it was right!



In October I will be taking a free motion quilting class! I have tried it on my own with heinous results. But I really really need to master this technique - or at least get decent at it.

Hopefully, looking forward to this class will help me forget the undercurrent of panic caused by McCain's choice of Vice-Presidential candidate. If he wins and he dies - aaauuugggggghhh just thinking about it makes my head explode.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-08-25 11:28
Subject: More quilts coming and going
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Not long after the dolphin quilt arrived in Australia, another Australian quilt arrived in my mailbox. This was my "booty" from the Miniature Booty Quilt Swap. (That's booty as in treasure. We are not swapping les petite derrieres.)

This geometric beauty is from Vickie C. from the Northwest Territories. Look at all those sharp corners lining up perfectly! Her design was inspired by the indigenous country in which she lives. She also packed in some fabric, a hair stick and a little book with stunning photos from around Australia.



I always ask to be paired with swap partners from other countries in hopes that their quilts will reflect some of their cultures. This one really fits the bill. Thanks so much Vickie!

My outgoing mini quilt will also cross an ocean but I'm not telling which one. It is going to be really cool when it's done. Here's a peek:



I know- it's an ordinary looking log cabin block. But just wait!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-08-01 20:09
Subject: Nematodes and and summer quilts
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There is heartbreak on the gardening front. A few days after we ate our first homegrown green beans (delicious!) I found out that our plants have root knot nematodes! Some icky worm things have invaded the plants' roots. Except for the one pictured below, the other plants are still alive and have small beans on them but they are not growing very fast.



On a happier note, we found a volunteer tomato plant in a corner of the yard. Last year I put out two tomato plants without realizing how bad the soil was. We never got any tomatoes, but maybe this one will produce for us. It is either a Mortgage Lifter or Brandywine. Or it may be an entirely different variety from seed randomly dropped by a bird. Earlier this week I went out to water it and noticed these dewdrops clinging to the leaves like tiny transparent pearls.



The fennel is struggling in the heat. Every morning I find a few of these tall mushrooms sharing their space.



Summer is never a productive crafting time because Gwen is home more and the heat and humidity slows me down. We had some major car repair bills this month so I have gone back to cooking at home every night and making lunches for Gwensdad to take to work.

In July I worked on the fourth and final installment of the Four Seasons Quilt Swap. During the first round (fall) I made an Aussie friend who commented on the quilt I posted. We chatted back and forth. She very sneakily requested to send to me for the winter theme and I was surprised to get the quilt I had seen on her blog. Along with the quilt she sent a book of beautiful aboriginal applique designs and I immediately started hatching my own plot. For the summer theme, I requested to send to her and used the dolphin pattern from the book. The border is from a the same jelly roll of bright batiks I used in my fall quilt. (The quilt is not crooked - it's my photography.)



And here is the lovely quilt I received from Carolyn in NJ. The workmanship on this is impeccable.



The dreaded month of August is now upon us and tomorrow's forecast is for 101 with a heat index of 112. There is no time to lie around like a slug because I have a Nervousness project to do and another mini quilt to make for a different swap. After that the holiday gift making will kick into high gear.

Gwen went to UCP camp this summer and loved swimming every day. It wore her out and she always looked like a zombie when I picked her up. Now camp is over and next week we register for school and she starts back on the 11th. She's going into 6th grade!

Gwensdad continues to work on finishing the back yard. I am doing research on edible landscaping, vegetable gardening and root knot nematode deterrence so we can raise our own salmonella-free produce next year. I'm also applying to take the Master Gardener classes which start in January at our Extension Service. Keep your fingers crossed that I get in!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-07-10 21:40
Subject: New Babies!
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New baby beans



And new baby cousin born on Monday in Oklahoma!



That's his big sister admiring him.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-06-26 09:21
Subject: The best thing about summer...
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is growing things!

lily

This beauty is a lily that has bloomed like crazy. Some days there would 5 new flowers open! I bought it two years ago and then found another one like it last year. There will be many more because they have really spread themselves around.

I am very haphazard about what, when and where I plant so there are pots all over the place. I started some basil, oregano, fennel and chives from seed last week and only one has sprouted so far. I didn't mark them so the identity of that plant will be a mystery until it gets bigger. Fennel bulbs are very expensive and hard to find so I'm toying with the idea of growing and selling some next summer when the back yard is available again. Right now it's under renovation.

italian bush beans

Just looking at this pic makes my mouth water because the plants are Italian Bush beans. They are delicious even when they come in a can, but fresh ones are a real treat. This small plot in our front yard was exposed when Gwensdad cut back some huge shrubs. It seemed a shame not to put it to good use.

When the back yard is finished we will have plenty of room for a garden and mass food production next year. I am preparing for it now by making compost, looking for some old windows for a cold frame, saving up for some canning equipment and reading about urban homesteading, especially at Path to Freedom and their accompanying blog.

Dreams of fresh veggies, fruits and herbs from our own yard are dancing in my head!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-06-20 05:57
Subject: 15 minutes.....
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Welcome CA readers!** I am glad you stopped by Gwenshouse and hope you find inspiration and ideas about how to begin or continue to live a more sustainable lifestyle. I also hope you will share what you are doing to reduce consumption and produce less waste by making things yourself and creatively reusing what you have.*



Here are some shortcuts for you:

Read about how I make my own laundry detergent.
View some bags, pillows, quilts and other items made of old clothes.
See the beach bag made from orange CA bags.
Join MIFA's Love Cap Knitting and Crocheting Program.


For further reading, visit these useful sites:

Home Made Laundry Detergent
Guide to Less Toxic Products
Down to Earth -A blog about simple living
Path to Freedom -Urban Homesteading
The Hillbilly Housewife -Low cost home cooking from scratch



And to jump start your crafty muse:

Wardrobe Refashion
Threadbanger
Art for Housewives
Trashion Nation





*To leave a comment or question, click on "Post a Comment" below. Those without a Livejournal account can select "anonymous" and start writing in the text box. If I know you, be sure to sign your name!


** Last month our local newspaper, the Commercial Appeal, asked for reader input on how to green your home. I sent in some ideas and they sent a reporter and photographer to the house! The article appeared this morning and you can read it here.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-06-19 14:59
Subject: KIPing in Memphis
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Last Saturday my agency (read: me) hosted a World Wide Knit in Public Day gathering in Memphis at the Central Library. On the same day, knitters all over the world were gathering in open spaces to share their craft.

The morning of the event I was afraid that no one would show up. Or that 300 people would show up. In the end we had about 30. We also had a huge selection of donated knitting needles, crochet hooks, stitch holders, cable needles and other tools to give away. We even got some media coverage from a local TV news show.

I was a dork and took some pics with my camera set to take movies. I have imovie but couldn't figure out how to get stills out of the clips. Can anyone suggest something? Fortunately someone else was snapping photos and has let me use them on the agency's knitting blog. Go there now to see all the action!

Everyone left saying "Let's do it again!" so I count the day as a great success.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-06-08 12:38
Subject: Two weeks of chaos
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Gwen starts school tomorrow and not a moment too soon! She has been home for two weeks and has been sick much of the time. One night we didn't have help and I was up with her until 3 am. But we slept until 10 to make up for it.

In addition to an ailing child with nowhere to go, we had renovation going on in the back yard. I nearly went insane from the non stop hammering and power tool noises day after day. But it is over for a while and we have a new patio, a new workshop and a covered ramp for wheelchair access from the carport to the back door. The back is still pretty messy but you can see the progress.




Gwensdad designed it all himself. The raised concrete circle and semi circle on the patio are for seating. There will be plants in the circle. The bare area next to the workshop is for a grape arbor so Gwensdad can raise muscadines and make his beloved muscadine jelly. There will be a swing for Gwen and some comfy chairs and much more landscaping. We will also put a large raised bed in the area the photographer is standing. Next year we can grow our own food and flowers!

There has been no making or creating due to the above mentioned insanity. But I did put together some fabrics for my summer doll quilt for the Four Seasons Quilt Swap. This time I will not send late!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-05-25 17:49
Subject: Gwen's Trip to the Hospital
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Call me Chatty Cathy- this is my fourth post this month!

Last Monday Gwen went to the hospital for some tests and dental work. Her new neurologist wanted to do an MRI, a Dexascan (bone scan) and get some blood drawn. These require general anesthesia so we called her dentist to come do a complete cleaning while she was under. He ended up taking out her 5 remaining baby teeth because all but one were hanging from a thread. Now her permanent teeth have room to emerge.

Gwen has the developmental capacity of a one year old, so she does not know to be afraid of the hospitals or white coats. Her parents are the ones that get nervous and uptight. Fortunately, we only have to do this every 3 years or so. This time I brought the camera and got some great shots.

Gwen was a little sleepy when we got there and wouldn't smile much.



Her Daddy kept her close by. He can't even stand to see her get a shot. She has him wrapped around her little finger - and vice versa. Her favorite place to be is on her Daddy's lap.



Lots more pics under the cut )

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-05-23 11:06
Subject: Memphis in May
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In May, Memphis has a month-long festival and salutes a certain country. There are ample opportunities to learn about the customs, culture, food and art of the featured country all around town. The business people stay busy establishing new commercial relationships, but the rest of us just enjoy the ride at events like the Beale Street Music Festival, the Memphis in May Triathlon, the Sunset Symphony (held on the riverbank) and the World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest that draws entrants from all over.



This year's honored country is Turkey. One of our local public gardens participated by highlighting Turkish plants and garden design. I made sure to take the walking tour since my lj friend [info]an_su is Turkish and loves gardening. I learned that Turkey has three main zones, a rainy foresty one in the north, a Mediterranean section along the coast and a larger desert part in the middle. It was interesting to find out that the garden staff did not have to bring in many species because they already had many of them growing there! Turns out the Turkey has an incredible number of different plant species within its borders. Here is some more from the museum's website.

Historically, the people of Persia and Turkey had a profound impact on horticulture and garden design. The Persians were among the first to develop and codify priciples of garden design, and their influence still exists today in gardens around the globe. Moreover, plants native to Turkey and plants valued by the Turks have yielded important medicinal, agricultural, and ornamental crops. Surprisingly, some of these plants are cultivated here in the Mid-south--even by the staff and volunteers of the Dixon!

Most of my pics didn't turn out too well, but here are a few:

Foxglove- they had a myraid of colors but this pink one was my favorite. And how cool is this giant allium! I am SO getting this for my yard.



Speaking of the yard, our back yard is getting a big renovation! Gwensdad designed it. There will be a workshop for Gwensdad, a new cool patio, access to to the back door for Gwen's wheelchair, and lots of places for plants including a giant raised bed for growing food and flowers. The noisy construction is very intrusive but it will be worth it.



This is the trench for a concrete barrier to keep the neighbor's cane out of our yard. Gwensdad has had an ongoing battle with this tenacious creeping plant ever since we moved in. Plus the neighbor is a real jerk. One day he saw Gwensdad cutting some cane that had grown through the fence into our yard and started yelling at him not to bother his fence. Yeah, that lovely chain link thing. Then he said "I hope you get a brain tumor". We tore down a rotting wooden fence to make room for the barrier and when it is done we'll cover up the ugly chain link with something much prettier.




This is the first major work we have been able to do since moving in and it is so exciting!

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-05-15 21:32
Subject: A Quick Trick
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April and May have been back to back sewing. As soon as one project is done, the deadline on another is looming. Gwen's teacher is retiring this year and her party was tonight. Eek I needed a gift!

So once again, I turned to the thrifted clothing stash



And made a simple bag. The recipient is very crafty and makes things all the time so I know she will like it. The blue lining fabric is made from Lily Pulitzer pants snapped up for $1.98.



Now let me tell you about this retirement party. It was at the Olive Garden. There were about 50 people there seated at two long tables. The first table enjoyed a great dinner, but those of us at the second table were still gnawing on breadsticks and guzzling tea two hours later! All but three people at our table left without dinner. Some were angry but this is just par for the course at the Olive Garden. That's why we quit going there years ago.

It wasn't a total wash. The honoree was properly honored. And there was a fabric store across the street where I was able to get elastic for my next project- 10 lavender sleep masks as end-of the-year gifts for all of Gwen's teachers and therapists.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-05-14 13:24
Subject: A Tale of Two Quilts
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It was the best of times and the worst of times. It was the Spring edition of the Four Seasons Quilt Swap. My quilt was going to be awesome. It was going to be different, a true work of art. Not like the floral theme quilts that everyone else would be doing. I would use a variety of hand dyed fabrics with undulating patterns and curvy flowing quilting stitches for my masterpiece. My inspiration was a samara, the spring fruit of a maple tree as in this pic from Wikipedia.

There was a trip to the quilt shop and considerable money spent. There was tracing, cutting, fusing and rearranging. Then there was another trip to the quilt shop and more money spent. Finally the quilting began and things went downhill. That darn pile of fabric would just not look like I wanted it to! And there were poufy places between the appliques because I didn't pull the layers tightly enough before pinning them together.

Two days after the due date, amidst much gnashing of teeth and rending of garments, this whole project was ditched. The hard ugly truth is that my artistic ability is not far enough advanced to create the sublime piece of pulchritude I had intended. This is where the misery ended:



There was still a quilt to make, and Plan B was to do what I do best right now- geometric shapes and straight line stitching with really great fabrics to add some pizazz. And naturally, these were floral prints.

With new humility, I raided and chopped up my thrifted clothing stash,



spent a pittance on some solid background fabric and matching thread and made this instead



Here is the back with triangular sleeves that will hold a dowel for hanging. A tutorial for this technique is here.



My recipient said she did not like cats, cat hair, cat designs or cat fabric. But I hope she likes pink.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-04-25 13:31
Subject: Saving the planet
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In the midst of all the excitement about the prom, I neglected to post about what I received in the shopping bag swap. My partner was Deb from Australia who sent me this cute sturdy tote.



Having a nice bag makes it much easier to remember to take it along to the store. I have used it for two days and avoided bringing home about 10 plastic bags. Just look how much it holds!



Now I want a few more for the major weekly grocery shopping trip. Fortunately I have some heavy fabrics in my stash and this great bag to use as a pattern.

An-Su, this pic is for you. It is an Arctic Queen Clematis that finally bloomed right outside my kitchen door yesterday.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-04-18 20:51
Subject: Gwen's first prom
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The big day finally arrived and Gwen went to her first prom! She looked absolutely adorable.

Yesterday, R gave her a manicure.



I finished hemming the dress right before midnight. Then while she was in school this morning I came home to make a ribbon flower hair clip and stitch a matching bib with more ribbon flowers. I couldn't find a slip in her size so we used a camisole and a refashioned a half slip out of one of my old ones.



Gwen also sported some very pretty demi-gloves hand crocheted for her by a friend. They set off the manicure beautifully and she got a lot of compliments on them.



She had a very cute date.





This prom was at Alexander's school. Gwen goes there in the summer and saw lots of teachers she has had over the years.

I will be the first to admit that I had the best time of all! When Gwen was born with cerebral palsy, mental retardation and epilepsy all the dreams of proms, ballet lessons and other rites of passage seemed out of reach. Well of course I was wrong and it has been a joy to realize that her life can be as full and meaningful as anyone else's. My life is certainly far richer since she is in it.

Now take one more look at our beautiful daughter and don't dare leave without commenting!







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gwensmom
Date: 2008-04-17 09:30
Subject: Prom dress
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Gwen is going to the prom tomorrow and I am sewing her dress today.

Earlier, I made a test version of the dress with some fabric I had on hand. It is a little bit big on her and that's good because she needs room to move around.

Here is the (unhemmed) test dress. She can wear if to school this summer.



A close up of the print. I bought this without a project in mind because it was so cute.



And now for the actual prom dress. I just finished setting in the sleeves. My objective unbiased opinion is that Gwen will look like a dream in this dress!



Stay tuned for pics of the finished dress and the big event.

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gwensmom
Date: 2008-04-10 10:22
Subject: I am a SUPERHERO!
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Call me Wonder Woman. The school system tried to reduce the amount of therapy for Gwen next year. I challenged it and was called into a meeting with three big wigs from the school system this morning.

The plan, which I did not approve, was to have Gwen's physical and occupational therapists take a less active role and train the classroom aides to work with her. With some notable exceptions, the caliber of classroom aides is not at all impressive and they come and go as if through a revolving door.

So I went to this meeting and was not scared and held out for what Gwen needs and got it. (I think that it was easier and less expensive for them to keep Gwen's therapy hours constant than to deal with my continued appeals up the chain of command.) Also, the principal backed me up especially about how untrained and unreliable some of the classroom aides can be.

It is all good now and I am glad to have met the people from the system. Everyone was reasonable and now they know that I am also reasonable but will stand up for what Gwen needs. I thanked them all and told them how pleased we have been with Gwen's school and how well she has done there. Hopefully they left feeling good about it too.


"NO! You must not reduce Gwen's therapy services! Now get me a New Orleans Spicy Combo meal with a biscuit to go."

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